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I ran from religion and sports, but they found me anyway

I’ve consciously kept away from two things my entire life — religion and sports (especially football and cricket). The unnecessary hype, the mass hysteria, the blind fanaticism — it just never made sense to me. When I was pregnant with my eldest, I was told I’d become a mother by August. Like any typical mother (fathers usually aren’t as invested in this part), I set off on an excited, determined hunt for a unique name — something rooted in Sanskrit, something that reflected my values, my philosophy, and the kind of person I hoped my child would grow to be. But life had other plans. In July — much earlier than expected — I was rushed to the emergency room, and my son was born almost a month ahead of schedule. By the time I fully regained my senses, my son had already been named — after St. Thomas. Why St. Thomas? How was this connected to my pregnancy, my delivery, or anything I stood for? I had never known the significance of July 3rd for Indian Christians until my son was b...
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The Untold Charm of a Village Life

Yes, there’s no denying that village life has its own unique beauty. The greenery, the fresh water, the crisp air—these are treasures you can truly experience only in the suburbs and villages. I’m not sure if all the villages across India share the same charm, but the villages in Kerala certainly stand apart. They have a magic of their own. Recently, I came across a picture of a playground nestled among thick trees. The caption read: “It’s not the Amazon Rainforest. And it’s no ordinary cricket ground either. This is Palapilly Ground, Thrissur, in Kerala.” Honestly, an aerial view of almost any village in Kerala would show you something just as stunning, if not better. And when it rains—oh, that’s when Kerala truly comes alive. The greenery deepens, the air smells richer, and the freshness seems to seep into the very soul of the land. But when I say Kerala comes alive, I don’t just mean the plants, rivers, and skies. I also mean the buzzing, creeping, hopping creatures that eme...

The Curios Case of a Little Virus

No rain. I was lying malnourished and sick. Finally, it started raining, and soon there was water everywhere. They say I am a pluviophile because I love rain so much. When rain first mixes with dry soil, the smell it gives off—no perfume can beat that. I would splash myself in the roadside rainwater, my excitement never fading. I would play in the rainwater, follow its flow wherever it led me, and stop only when I couldn’t move any further. One day, while hopping in the rainwater, I slipped into a well. I cried loudly, but no one heard or saw me. It was dark inside. I feared there might be deadly creatures in the water, but before I could look around, I heard a chug-chug-chug sound and was suddenly sucked through a narrow pipe into a water tank. Soon, whoosh! I was pushed through another pipe and landed in a water can. Someone shouted, “Babu, fill the mineral water can!” A man quickly picked me up and poured me into the can. From there, I could see a small, busy bus stand. P...

Alumni Meet: Celebrating Love Beyond Achievements

Now, a month after returning from Jammu, I find myself missing everything I experienced during that visit — the warmth, the laughter, the sense of belonging that only comes from going back to where it all began. I’ve attended most of these first-time alumni meets — from school through college. The excitement of those initial reunions is indescribable: meeting old friends, hugging your favorite teachers, walking through familiar hallways — the classrooms, the library, the canteen, the playground. It fills you with something deeply profound. But often, the magic doesn’t last beyond that first meet. Over time, these gatherings can subtly shift into platforms for showcasing personal achievements. And let’s face it — some accomplishments are more “celebrated” than others. These are the people who grace the stage, the ones everyone wants to take selfies with. That’s why my recent experience at an alumni meet — at the school where I studied from KG through Grade 8 — felt so refreshingly...

A Tale of Two Vacations

Everything about vacations used to thrill me. It all began with shopping for gifts for family back home, packing with excitement, and finally boarding the train. The journey itself took four days to reach both our paternal and maternal homes, and every part of it felt like an adventure. One of the most delightful parts of the journey was waving at people near railway crossings—those waiting patiently for the train to pass. We would keep waving until someone responded, and the moment they did, it felt like a little victory—a mission accomplished. Another source of joy was the occasional vendors who came by selling snacks. While our parents didn’t always share our enthusiasm, we would plead for something every time a vendor appeared. When the train would take a serpentine curve, we were thrilled to catch a glimpse of the engine—a rare but delightful sight that filled us with excitement. Every part of the train journey was filled with joy—except for one moment: crossing the Krishna Rive...

If Sunita Williams had an Indian husband – Mission Impossible

They say, behind every successful man, there is a woman. But behind every successful woman, there is a man who actually lets her be successful. Take Sunita Williams , for example. If she hadn’t married Michael J. Williams , would she still hold the record for the longest time spent in space? Hard to say. This isn’t even the first time she’s been away from home for ages—she previously spent 195 days in space during Expedition 14/15 (2006-2007). Now, imagine if Michael J. Williams wasn’t progressive enough. Would he have “allowed” his wife to go on another space mission? Granted, she initially went for an eight-day test flight, but due to a technical malfunction, her stay got extended to over nine months . If Michael J. Williams were like many husbands we see around us, he might have burned NASA down in frustration. He’d have stormed into their office, made an emergency call to Sunita, and demanded she return—or worse, booked himself on the next available flight to space to bring he...

The Secret to Aging (or Not): Telomeres, Stress, and the Mammootty Mystery

One of my friends became curious about why actor Mammootty, even at 75, shows almost no signs of aging. His research led him to a fascinating conclusion: telomeres. Telomeres are the protective caps at the ends of chromosomes that prevent genetic material from deteriorating as cells divide. Essentially, they act like the plastic tips on shoelaces, keeping our DNA from unraveling. So, does telomere length help us slow down or even defy aging? The answer is—yes! Healthy habits such as eating well, exercising, managing stress, and getting quality sleep can slow telomere shortening, keeping cells healthier for longer. Now, we’ve all seen interviewers throw the same question at Mammootty: "Why don’t you age?" And he casually shrugs it off with, "It’s in my genes." Could he be referring to telomeres? We know for sure, he might be following a healthy lifestyle—eating right, exercising, and hopefully getting good sleep. But what about stress? How does he manage...